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MUM'S THE WORD with NOTONTHEHIGHSTREET (AD)


There's nothing quite like becoming a mum that highlights just how much your own mother has done for you, is there?! It's safe to say I've learnt to appreciate my mum on a completely different level since having my boys.  

All the things I took for granted growing up are now majorly mirrored back to me in my own life. It makes me love my mum even more, and I honestly didn't think that was physically possible. It also makes me think what goes around comes around too. I'm now the person stood with the little person rolling their eyes at me! That will bring my mum joy no end, I'm sure!!

But in all seriousness, I'm so lucky to have my mum in my life. A woman who at a young age gave up so much to have me, who has always supported me, and even when I absconded to Edinburgh, she wore a smile on her face and told me to go.

That very thought makes me tearful now, as since becoming a mum myself I realise that decision, however happy she was for me, broke her heart in two. Funnily enough, it's now me that struggles with the distance. The teenager who skipped off happily to Edinburgh is now a mother of two boys thinking she must be straight up crazy to not have her mum living near by. When we see each other we have amazing quality time together but I miss the little every day things with my mum. The popping in on her for a quick cuppa, or going over for a Wednesday night tea. I miss her in my day to day, weekly life.

This Mother's Day, I wanted to get my mum something a little bit different. Flowers have become my default gift, which is lovely as I know she loves flowers, but not for every Mother' Day. So I decided to peruse one of my all time favourite sites, notonthehighstreet, who are celebrating all those who 'mum'. I've been a fan of them since they first launched their site and they still today remain my go to for that special, thoughtful gift.

I don't know about you but I try not to repeat gifts too often, says the girl with flowers (!!!), but you know what I mean. I've bought her lots of jewellery, clothing and accessories over the years, so I knew I didn't want to go in that direction.


When I found these beautiful Botanical prints that you can personalise I instantly knew I'd found my gift. I fell in love with the vintage vibe of the flowers and the elegant lettering, so much so I couldn't resist getting one for myself. I mean, I am a mum after all ;).



I always find, notonthehighstreet, always provides those gifts that you are always so excited to give. My mum deserves an all expenses paid trip around the world, but while my budget doesn't stretch to that, I hope she likes this gift and the thought that's been put into it. She's one in a million and if I don't tell her that enough, this is certainly one day when I should.

I love you, Mum.

Now please move up to Edinburgh, already?! ;)



*this post is proudly sponsored by notonthehighstreet, as always all thoughts and opinions are my own.

Wednesday, 28 February 2018 Comments: 2
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WORLD BOOK DAY with SAINSBURYS (AD)

// Elmer Costume // Willy Wonka Costume // The Gruffalo Costume //

Reading with my children wasn't always so straight forward for me. I remember being pregnant and having these wonderful visions of being all snuggled up reading to my little ones, with them hanging off my every word, excited to see what the next page brought. I mean, I have a degree in Acting (however dusty!), surely I was born for this reading to children gig?

Eh not quite, because the reality was very, very different. As a toddler Caleb despised me reading to him. I couldn't hold or be anywhere near the book for a start, he had to hold it, and before I could so much as read the first couple of words on the page he would hurl the book in the air and off he would trot. I would be left in a sea of hurled books feeling frustrated, sad, and to be honest, a little mad. Reading should be an enjoyable activity why was he making it such a negative one??

So I tried, and I tried, until it became a stressful and unhappy task for both of us. Was I failing him in some way because he didn't like me to read to him, and worse still, what damaging effects would this have on him?? Classic first time parent fear and guilt, always wanting to do everything perfectly for our children.

It turns out he was just a being toddler, and I happened to have a toddler who liked to be in full control of ANY activity he chose to do, so why would reading a story be any different?! I needed to approach reading in a way were he felt he had full control, so I put aside the actual act of reading a story to him for a time, and let him discover books on his terms. Instead of me reading the book to him I would let him turn the pages whilst I asked him questions about the images he was seeing. We'd also count what he could see on the pages too, and when for the first time he didn't hurl the book, I knew I was on to something. It was my light bulb moment and this was the beginning of Caleb's love for books. 

I now have a boy who adores reading books and his little brother has followed suit. It's a joy to watch them enjoy all the different stories, and for them to choose their favourites. Something they're both really excited about is World Book day, on 1st March, as they'll get to dress up as their favourite story characters for school and nursery.

I think World Book Day, is such a clever initiative to get children actively talking about books and wanting to read more, particularly if they're a reluctant reader too. It also prompts us as parents to make sure we do take the time for that precious bed time story.

We've all been there when we're that exhausted from a full days work and parenting, that the idea of skipping bedtime story is all too appealing. To end the day on a lovely positive note such as reading a book together is so important for a child but also for us, I think. They say reading to our children promotes a good connection and a sense of well being, I find this to be absolutely true, because if Caleb is worried or concerned about anything he'll choose to talk about it after story time. It's clearly when he feels his safest and most connected with Michael and I.

Last year for World Book Day, Caleb dressed up as, Wally from, Where's Wally?, and to his delight they actually played, Where's Wally?, with Caleb hiding throughout the nursery! So you can imagine the excitement levels for World Book Day in our house. This year, as part of Sainsbury's support for National Literacy Trust pledge the supermarket is encouraging parents and children to get reading this World Book Day. You can find the most awesome range of costumes that you can buy online and in store now.

Both the boys have been having fun dressing as their favourite characters in preparation for World Book Day...

// The Gruffalo Costume //

A long standing favourite book with Archie, is the well-known and loved, The Gruffalo, by Julia Donaldson. Archie thinks he's awfully scary in this costume and I got told off when I laughed at how cute he looks! Apparently, Gruffalo's aren't cute ;). 

// Harry Potter Costume //

Meanwhile, Caleb is starting to gravitate towards slightly older books like, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and the first Harry Potter novel. We are currently doing a chapter a night with, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and he is loving it. The boy I thought I would never get to snuggle down and read a book with ;).

// Willy Wonka Costume //

If you have a little one who will love dressing up for World Book Day, or love dressing up in general, be sure to check out Sainsbury's. Their costumes are excellent quality and will last long after World Book Day. Dressing up as their favourite characters really puts the fun into reading, and reading should be fun!



The boys costumes can all found below:

// The Gruffalo // Harry Potter // Willy Wonka // Elmer //

You can find my shirt here, and my jeans here.


*This post was in proud collaboration with Sainburys, as always all thoughts and opinions are my own.

Sunday, 25 February 2018 Comments: 2
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PHOTOGRAPHING CHILDREN // TIPS & TRICKS in collaboration with WHITE STUFF (AD)


February half term is here, and what a welcomed break it is after the January slog. I'm excited to have some family time together and to get out and about. I read somewhere recently that we get roughly 940 weekends with our children before they fly the nest, 260 of them already gone by the time they turn five. I'm not usually one for statistics, but these ones pretty much freaked me out. Caleb turns six in April, I daren't even do the math.

This half term break just got a whole lot more precious, and it's making me want to dust my camera off and get those real memory maker pictures. Not capturing anything fancy, just my boys as they are right now at this age. You know, before they ditch us and fly the nest in however many weekends ;).


A lovely side effect of blogging, is how much I've learnt (through trial and error!) about photographing my children and interiors. We recently teamed up with, White Stuff to photograph their new kidswear range, Stuff & Wonder, and we had so much fun doing so. Having two very active boys, I am always on the look out for well made, comfortable, yet stylish clothing, and this collection does not disappoint. Made mostly from 100% cotton the clothing is super soft and durable, the perfect combination for little ones. The range has been a hit with my boys, who are very particular about what they wear, so it's nice to find a brand that we both love.

Whilst giving you a sneak peek of, White Stuff's new children range. I thought I'd also share with you some of my tips and tricks on how to photograph children, and how to get the most out of your images, whether you're using a camera or camera phone. You don't need fancy equipment to capture beautiful pictures of your children, with a few techniques you can start to capture more natural shots of your little ones, the type of shots you'll treasure for years to come.

Lightweight and warm // Puff Me Up Coat 
 Attention to detail // Volley Knit Jumper
Stylish & Comfortable // Oasis Stretch Chinos
100% Cotton // Volley Knit Jumper

ONLY TAKE PICTURES IF YOUR CHILDREN ARE HAPPY FOR YOU TO DO SO //

A fairly obvious point, but sometimes when there's a special event, like a birthday, we can't help but beg for that picture or smile from our children. Thanks to blogging I learnt very early on that this is not going to get you that special capture you so crave for, you're more likely to get a grumpy child, and no one wants that. I'd much prefer no capture at all than one of them looking uncomfortable and unhappy, regardless if it's their birthday or not. I find that by respecting their wishes when they don't want to be photographed, means that when they actually do, that's when you get the best kind of pictures. The pictures of them happy and having fun, which leads me to my next point...

DON'T GET FRUSTRATED IF THEY'RE ON A CAMERA STRIKE //

Children will go through phases of not wanting their pictures taken, don't let that stress you. It's more important that your child is happy and enjoying their time than you capturing the day. It's all swings and roundabouts and they'll be begging before long to have their photograph taken once more. 

Smart & Fun // Time for Tennis Printed Shirt

CAPTURE CHILDREN IN THEIR NATURAL HABITAT //

I tend to only take pictures when my boys are fully immersed in a task, whether that's playing with their toys or throwing stones into a river, it can be anything. I personally love their expressions when they're fully absorbed in something as you'll capture that little frown of concentration or the beginnings of a smile. For me it feels like catching a fleeting moment in time, these always end up my favourite captures.


WANT TO CAPTURE MORE EVERY DAY SHOTS OF YOUR CHILDREN? SET UP LITTLE PLAY AREAS //

I personally like to capture pictures of my boys at home, it's these little every day moments that I know I'll treasure in years to come. Big birthdays, you remember, but the every day stuff fades so quickly.

I particularly love photographing my boys together, but rather than ask them to awkwardly stand next to each other for a picture (where you'll be lucky if both boys' eyes are on the camera), I'll instead set up little play areas. They happily play while I snap away, they're my favourite type of captures. Normal every day stuff, but to this sentimental old mum, really special.

Caleb & Archie //  Lets Go Jogger
Caleb // Ace Grey Hoodie Grey Marl
Caleb // Matchpoint Tee
Archie // Explorer Sweat
Denin Style // Lets Go Joggers

Archie // Ace Hoodie Rugby Red

TAKE A LOT! //

Ahh the beauty of modern day photography, you can snap to your hearts content. Children are fast paced little creatures so I find the more pictures I take the more likely I'll have a few precious ones I'll want to keep. Also, I find the more pictures you take the less bothered children become of the camera. Ironically, if you're just quietly snapping away with no coaxing this is when they start to give the camera more eye contact. Seize that opportunity when it arises! 


GET THEM INVOLVED //

This works particularly well for the camera shy! Let them take pictures of you or things that they want to photograph. I always ask them if there's anything they think I should be taking pictures of too. It becomes a lovely activity for us all to get involved with and I've found their interest in photography is ever growing. They pick cracking shots too...


LET THEM WEAR CLOTHING THEY LOVE //

This is a particularly good point if your wanting to capture your children on a special occasion, like their birthday. In the past I've picked their clothing thinking to myself how cute it will look in pictures. This hasn't always gone down well with my two. However, if they pick their clothing themselves they're much more likely to want to be photographed in them. Ahhh vanity comes to us all young ;). Of course this may mean your child might spend their fourth birthday wearing swim shorts and the top half of Captain America, but I guarantee this will make the pictures all the more priceless.


HAVE FUN! //

Don't think about getting the perfect shot, there's no such thing with children involved. Kids are balls of energy and the best type of pictures are the ones that capture that. This is my favourite one of Archie (pictured above), because it is him all over, a bit of a ham and a show off! 


GENTLE DIRECTION //

I tend to avoid directing my boys in pictures, for the obvious reason that most kids tend to do the opposite as to what their parents ask ;). However, if my boys are relaxed and really loving the camera this is when I seize my opportunity to gently direct. In the above picture I suggested they sit on huge log we were passing overlooking the loch, if they'd said no, my picture idea would have not happened, and we would carried on walking. Simple as that. This time however, they said yes and I'm so glad they did as I was able to capture some of my favourite shots of them to date. All the stars aligned. It's rare! So enjoy those moments when they happen.



I hope you've found this post useful, I'll do a more in depth post about what camera and camera phone I use, and how I edit. Any questions you have feel free to ask! 

A big thank you to White Stuff for asking us to be a part of their kidswear launch, we are thoroughly impressed with their fun and stylish range. You can find the whole collection HERE.

The boys were pictured wearing//

Puff Me Up Coat // Volley Knit Jumper // Oasis Stretch Chinos // Time for Tennis Printed Shirt //
Matchpoint Tee // Lets Go Joggers // Ace Hoodie // Explorer Sweat //


*this post is in proud sponsorship with White Stuff, as always all thoughts and opinion are my own.

Tuesday, 13 February 2018 Comments: 2
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HOW TO START DECLUTTERING YOUR HOME


I shared our story about decluttering a while ago and it was a post that seemed to resonate with so many of you. It would seem a lot of us are craving a less cluttered existence, and to think as I explained in my last post, decluttering our home happened purely by accident.

Quick back story, we were moving house and our belongings needed to go into storage, we vowed not to pay storage on anything we didn't need or love, hence the great decluttering. It turned out to be one of the best things that could have happened and we have found a less cluttered home makes busy family life so much easier and enjoyable. 

Many of you asked how best to tackle clutter in your home, and seeing as I'm not an expert in this field, more an accidental declutterer (is that even a word? I don't know, but let's just go with it!), I thought I'd share with you the things we found that worked, and more importantly the things that didn't.

Let's start with a big DO NOT. I wouldn't recommend decluttering an entire house in one go like we did unless you really have to, ie moving home, or if you're insane, both of which we were qualified for at the time. It's an exhausting task and you will quickly tire, and the last thing you want to do is give up part way. I know had it not been for our impending moving date I would have absolutely spat the dummy and given up and forever lived in a pile of clutter. No joke.

Instead I would recommend starting off small. Choose an area in your home that would really benefit from decluttering. The kitchen is a good place to start. It tends to be the place where we have the most cupboard space and the most amount of clutter.


When I was sorting through our kitchen it was beyond ridiculous how many duplicates we had of everything. Like mugs, will I ever really need to make 20 cups of tea in one go??! Tea party anyone? I sure hope not. 20 wine glasses however, is a different matter ;).

Simplifying how much you have of one item is a great way to start decluttering. I whittled down all of our mugs, cups, plates, cutlery etc, to a max of eight, you can go lower or higher depending on how many live in your home and how frequently you entertain guests. You'll be surprised by just how much space this simple task will free up. Then apply this method to the rest of your kitchen. Go through all your cooking equipment and utensils, if you have lots of duplicate items that you don't need, get rid of them. By whittling down all these items you'll be freeing up valuable cupboard space in your kitchen. If you're wanting your kitchen surfaces to be clutter free you can then choose the items you use daily to remain out, everything else can now go into your freed up cupboard space.

DO BOX & BAG AS YOU GO. As you start to declutter for a moment it can feel like all you're doing is making a big old mess, and that can be pretty disheartening. It will become all too tempting to just give up and tidy everything away. Therefore have you're bags and boxes ready before you start, label them BIN, RECYCLE, DONATE, SELL. Be honest with yourself about the SELL box, if you don't have time to sell items put them in your donate pile, with the knowledge that it will be benefiting somebody else. As you declutter make sure everything is going straight into the boxes.

Once the boxes and bags are full deal with them there and then if you can. You've gone to the hard work of decluttering don't then have the boxes clutter up your home. Pop them into the car and at the next available point drop them off to be recycled or at your nearest charity shop. Then pat yourself on the back knowing your clutter will either find itself a much needed new home or be recycled. It will no longer be clogging up your house collecting dust.

STORAGE & CUPBOARD SPACES. Poor use of storage space definitely leads to excess clutter spilling out into a home. I have an awful habit for shoving unwanted items into cupboards which then leaves little room for the things we actually need and use. It's all very well storing seasonal or occasional use items, but anything you don't need or ever use should go. Free up that space for the stuff you really need storing.



COLLECT MEMORIES NOT THINGS. I have this quote up in our home, and for an old sentimental gal like me, these are wise, wise words, in the larger but also smaller sense. I used to keep EVERYTHING. Cards, postcards, letters, ticket stubs, receipts, magazines, you name it. Most of these things were kept for sentimental reasons but the sheer quantity of them was unnecessary. I now choose my keepsakes wisely, because once a sentimental old soul, always a sentimental old soul.

This quote and the whole decluttering experience has really changed my view on what I purchase for our home too. I no longer have this incessant need to fill my home with stuff. Instead, I want our home to be filled with memories, and I want our belongings to reflect those memories too. From the ABC tall boy cabinet in Caleb's room which we bought whilst pregnant with him, from the hooks in our dining room which my granddad pulled out of a skip when they were tearing down my mum's old primary school. See, I told you I am sentimental. Do not mistake decluttering for having no sentimental value on things.



I hope this has shed some light on how we decluttered, and I really hope our experience is of some use to you. Please let me know if decide to declutter and if you find any of these tips useful. I can't express how much this has been a positive experience for us. If you decide to declutter remember it should be a gradual process as you're likely to be working through a lifetime's worth of possessions, which you won't just magically sort through overnight. Once you start though, you'll realise the benefits that can come from decluttering your home, and you can slowly work towards having less clutter.

If you missed my last post about decluttering you can find it here!

Thursday, 1 February 2018 Comments: 8
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